Ivan + Kegena = Keevan..Our Family Life

Phuket

2009-08-02T11:21:00.004+08:00

We went Phuket from 16-19Jul09..it was a very super last minute trip..we flew off on Thurs only book our air tickets on wed night..stil got to go airport to buy..then hotel room only get confirmation on thurs morning..

Keevan wondering why this plane so small...

Right outside our hotel...

Then we bought Keevan to Kai Island..it a children friendly island becoz fishes swim near the shore..waiting for food..

Keevan really enjoy swimming in the sea..with all the fishes..

Sunbathing...

We have lots of fun and keevan just love the sun..and he swim too much and he just sleep a lot too..haha..Keevan also drink beer and we think he was really drunk becoz he start to yell and scream and walk very fast after that..

Now got to plan our next trip..to where???

2009-07-09T21:06:00.003+08:00

Keevan is 13mths and he is trying his walk..he now can walk around the entire house. Within one week, he learnt everything..from taking a few steps to standing up on his own to walking around the house.

So cute when he walk..

I am super looking forward for next week, getting my one week break..wanted to go Langkawi but change of plan not going anymore..maybe in aug going back bangkok again so boring..

Next week go JB with 3 Sista..so long never go out together..the same 4 of us going JB to enjoy life again..

last week, me and hubby went to lunar and rebel, wah lau,. so long never go party till 4pm, at least for the last 13 months..can you imagine, i feel like a mountain turtle, altot I went once to mambo night but it not as late as this, i only went for an hour..this time is till morning..thanks to my dearest sista i got this chance to enjoy a good time with my ah dear..feel so young again..but then the next day so tired..

Updates

2009-06-29T23:00:00.005+08:00

Hmm.. where should start..probably the weekend that jus pass..like my sis say we bought the kid to the new indoor play ground and they love it..it going to be one of our outing venue again..the kids enjoy themselves and we hmm..enjoy seeing them being happy..keevan was more amazed by how the big brothers and sister can play rather then his own toy.. Jovan and Keevan so cute, without much encouragement, they go through the tunnel and slide not scare of the dark..so brave.

Then Saturday, we got our first free meal..haha..so funny..on sis birthday the restuarant decided to treat her..haha..

Then the week before was a drama..Sat bought keevan to take his jab..so he got 2 wound..then we went city plaza shopping then we went east coast for dinner..then dunno why keevan stat to bleed from his gum..alot of blood..i was so shock!! I should have taken some of the bloody scene..but never too panic to do so..haha..

Then on Sun, after 12 months he finally got his offical haircut, i mean i use to cut his hair..but i think he need s good haircut..in the begining he is ok..then his screaming is so unbearable..

My trip to Shanghai, the only thing that is good..was the massage and the 12 course meal for every meal..until i gain weigh after my return..

Random photo

2009-05-31T12:49:00.005+08:00

So long never write again..so busy..so many things to plan... so many things to do..luckily one is over, our SG/KL roadshow and it is a successful event.. next on my hand is shanghai trip which is the week after that i need to prepare the slide, sfa and many more..this mean I would be around for Keevan 1st Birthday.. I will be in shanghai..i was glad the meeting was cancelled but in the end, it happening again..why why..

Then got to plan for Keevan birthday party which is next week, lucky I have finish packing the party bag for the children..Carebear theme so every thing also carebear..

Then also got to plan for my boss europe trip..then jakarta trip and ITB Asia. hai yo my hand is full..

Well..this year i celebrated my first mother day..i got one more day to celebrate..and it feeling so great..so fast Keevan is already one..times really fly..now he know how to throw his temper and he is really good at it..al becoz of the grandparents..

I just collected my bonus for last year which suppose to come in qtr 1, when i saw the amt, i almost faint..it it too little to call bonus...then small amt also got to wait so long..to be right, it have not collected but finally know it coming soon...

We took Keevan and mummmy to the singapore flyer..one word to descride the ride..boring..it is so bo liao..15mins into the ride, i start asking when is this going to end..lucky i got free voucher, if i dun have i will never go there, one ticket cost $29..omg..

the sista group also went to the zoo together, first time we go zoo together after we know each other for 10 over years..

now keevan is sleeping and he is shitting non stop for the past one week.i mean at least 5 times a day..doc say is because of stomach flu older ppl say it becoz he is growing 3 teeth at one go..what ever..he is still playing, yelling and shouting and laughing..

Updates

2009-04-24T23:37:00.002+08:00

Hmm..all my trip is cancelled due to budget..i have to take 2 days nopay leave per mth..what economy is this..company use every chance they have to cut cost..nothing to do about it..
Keevan is growing bigger each day ..i''m angry with him 'coz he call PaPa first..Omg suddenly out of no where he suddenly say it last week..now he know how to bye bye and if u see twinkle twinkle little star he can show u the action with his hand..so cute.. His birthday is coming soon..we have book the indoor playground in Grassroot club for his party..so it on 6 Jun 5pm onwards..
Work so busy nowadays becoz got roadshow in may. So many things to do..going kl for the event also..my first biz trip for the company also my first time away from Keevan for 2 days..dunno how will it be

2009-04-01T12:18:00.005+08:00

Keevan was choked by fishbone yestesday while eating fish porridge..OMG..lucky i was not around but if I am around mayb it will not happen..

I dun even know it until I reach home around 8 plus when the incident happen around 5 plus..which he had already come back from doc..i know he going to see doc but i tot it was only fever or cough..never came across my mind it is fishbone that is casuing it.

We reckon it is a very small fishbone that may have cause a cut in his throat,so he do not want to drink or eat..keep crying in pain..so cause me entire night not sleeping..like i say to them always be very careful when giving him fish..lucky he is ok..

anyway..he still look happy..

see my keevan is a kampong baby (i think he look a bit girly in the photo)..he love to play along the corridor to get dirty but i dun care as long he enjoy it. he is definately learning to walk now..he is full of nonsense and shit now..

If my PIL and of course my mum continue to pamper him like shit..he will get shit from me also..now he is capable doing weird face to tell you he is unhappy and will yell at you..but i told him i am capable beating him up..even with his bodyguard around.

We also make our way to Palau Ubin during the 7th day of Lunar new year for some nature walk and seafood..it fun..our first family trip there also with mum n dad, sis and family..

Even Keevan is so excited about the boat ride.

2009-03-13T20:19:00.002+08:00

Keevan is 9mths now..so fast..he is getting more noisy becoz he talk a lot..he can now crawl, stand with support, run very fast in walker. he is really a handful now but stil my little good boy..
I have to say during the trip to Bangkok ke is very well behave. When we arrive in Singapore, there is an old lady from australia came to me and say Keevan is very well behave during the flight. This really made me so proud.
Keevan birthday is coming soon and now got to think where should we hold his party. thinking to hold it at one of those children playground but i dun have a lot of friends with kids..i'm sad coz i will not be around for hubby and keevan 1st day..i will be in Beijing for business.
i'm actually writing this while i am in a conference call..ya..conference call..what to do..hai..

Fresh from Bangkok

2009-02-28T00:02:00.004+08:00

From Bangkok writing this, too much shopping today..Keevan keep falling off bed or knock his litte head..

At Changi heading off..

In the plane. Keevan first plane ride..he did not really behave very well..but it still ok

Smelling the plane dirty carpet..

We arrive after 1h55mins..but it took a long time to clear our baggage..

How can miss MBK!!

3 hrs at Platimun shopping centre, give me this..I love it..

3 little monster

2009-01-03T23:20:00.000+08:00

2009-01-03T23:08:00.002+08:00

Keevan can crawl already and he is learning to sit by himself..this fellow ready learn thing fast..did I say he got 2 teeth already...now he love to bite my shoulder and he cannot keep still during meal time or when u carry him..he rather be in the pray when we go shopping..i really dun mind it because I can enjoy my shopping..the only headache is meal time..he will keep moving around in your arms or baby chair or he will scream..
dunno what to say about him..he such a good boy everywhere except for meal time when we go out..he really got flower leg..damn shopaholic..on thursday I plan to be at home, this boy just cannot stop making noise the moment we go out he happy. Then we tot he will fall asleep while shopping he never even close his eyes for 5 mins..I wonder why he got such flower leg
Brand new year I hope this year I can really go take aeroplane..ivan say want go bangkok during april then australia in june..hmm actually both place not my preference but got go holiday can already..then I hope this year job will get easier..i looking for pay increment.. since I already know what event is happening and I had already done it before.

2008-12-29T19:40:00.002+08:00

Keevan really grow so fast..6mth 2 weeks old already..I miss him being a baby..now I can only look at photo to remember how he look like when he is so tiny tiny..

So many things had happen for the past month..haha..so many things that I cannot remember..hmm we will genting and malacca on 24-25 Dec 08, it a big family trip including mummy daddy, sis, jacob and course the little ones..it a fun trip..then what else did i do. i know i am super busy at work, got to prepare for the move to B3, ya no sunlight no fresh air. because we are located in the carpark. So sian.

At 5th month, Keevan had his first experience in a walker, baby chair. LRT and MRT.

like father like son..nothing like the mum

2008-11-21T22:48:00.001+08:00

2008-11-21T22:24:00.002+08:00

we just celebrated our 2nd year anniversary..this yr we got keevan with us..fill so wonderful..alot of ppl say he is a very obedient boy..i wish he is like tat when older so easier to control..bcoz dear dear very busy so we only went for dinner at Jerry jalan kayu..food is not too bad..nice dinner..dear surprise me with a bouquet of sunflowers..the other day i was jus thinking my lao he very long never buy flower me then i got it..it a good surprise..but a little waste money..feel a bit pai seh coz he bought me my new faragammo wallet and bally bag..then i didn't get him anythin..we went shopping last sunday..nv tot will buy anything back but in the end spend so much money..thanks dear dear..

keevan with the sunflowers...

Finally my keevan is not a mountan turtle anymore..he took his first mrt ride today to toa payoh..and yesterday he took his first ride on lrt..he behave very well iin tje public transport..i was actually prepare for hell..but he jus sat quietly on my lap through out the journey..

Keevan in lrt..we are going auntie shivawn house

Random photos of us...

2008-11-17T16:18:00.006+08:00

Keevan at Yishun swimming complex..early in the morning.water so cold...

Piggy Keevan...

Our second experienc e at Tepanyakki Restraurant at Turi Beach Batam..Still so delicious..yum yum..

Trying out THE chair at Taka..not really that incredible..but would not mind if someone buy for Keevan..

Go away mama..

I love camera..

My first experience on a baby chair at Golden Mile steamboat restaurant..

Keevan first experience in walker..now he can run about it in..

Waiting for our ferry to Batam..

Children World in the Zoo

My Eskimo baby at Genting..

Our family first visit to the Zoo.

2008-11-13T20:59:00.005+08:00

It been so long since I wrote here..because so many thing had happen and i dunno what to write..best of all..i am using a new lappy now..damn angry with mr ho..because he remember to bring the lappy out but forgot to bring home..

I am going to curse the fellow that took my lappy..because all my photos are gone..i hope he will lost his most important thing too..hopefully lost himself..all my photos are gone..damn it..i dun have any of my pregnant photo left..onli a few left in my blog..si bei angry..

Then all my photo with mr ho also gone..luckily i have not delete all the photo in my camera or else i will lost all keevan photo right from he is born..i am going to kill mr ho if this happen

then we also went holiday in Batam just 2D1N..bring keevan go swimming..he love it a lot..

I think keevan love to take photo jus show him the camera, he will smile at it..so amazing..

2008-10-15T22:01:00.002+08:00

Back from Genting, we had a good drive up and down and my precious son behaving very well..I love himso dearly..it nice to be a mother at 25..my first birthday with my son..

i won money but ivan lost, so in the end still negative..but we had fun..

Thanks Sista for sending me your blessing..it nice to receive a present by mail from ms huang..almost forgot about the traditional way of sending blessing..

See my dear son at A&W, I think a such young age, he love root beer..

2008-10-08T11:08:00.007+08:00

Wow..it been so long that I last update so many things had happen..

On me..I have my wishlist this year except one now..that is to take aeroplane to somewhere..but having a son that need me to be around especially at night..cause me to ponder..let see how..

and I got a new hair cut..I snap my long hair till short..it been 7 years at least before I decide to snap it off..al becoz I am dropping way too much hair..even till now..but I love my hair..it make me look younger...See

This was taken yesterday, me and Ivan went JB for supper..yes we left after my dear son sleep..and he will not wake up until around 5 for milk..We are happily eating lok lok on beside the road..real fun and experience as it never found in Singapore..I tell you the fry chicken backside is damn..savoury..shiok..the pork kidney, the pork liver, pork intestine..OMG..

And it cheap..will go again definitatly for sure..

WE got a new addition to our family..Baby Jovan is out to see the world...but he was sick the moment he is born, so please pray for his fast fast recovery.

He so cute, so look like Jolie and Jacob..

Tomorrow, off we go to Genting..I hope my dear boy can take the cold..he not very good with cold weather...he got very sensitive nose like his dad..after one night in the aircon room, morning wake up will have block nose..he everything also like his dad..OMG..

So birthday this year will be at genting..so fast one year older again..i feel like I have accomplish many things in life..of course there is more to go..let go win big this time and I can come back to shop shop and shop..my lao he had already given me my birthday present..that is my one carat and my ever dearest rolex watch..so i dun think i will have anything more on the actual day..but i wish he will surprise me again..asking for too much...haha..i have not bought anything for myself..but i am thinking i should..my wish..I WAN TO TAKE AEROPLANE!!!

one day after my birthday will be Keevan 4 month old..so fast yet so slow..see he so zi lian also..he know how to look at camera..

Then work is so super busy nowadays..Christine left us and her job pile on to me..and then with the new ED even worst more things to do..I hope he get his secretary soon...so can take some load off..

2008-09-26T22:45:00.002+08:00

Little keevan is playing with Jolie at the corridor..he so happy..laugh n laugh n laugh

2008-09-15T22:25:00.002+08:00

Keevan is growing well said his PD..good weight and good height..hmm..that my boy..he is weighing 6.2kg now..

And I am bringing him to Cruise on Royal Carribbean in Dec..ya me alone and my colleague..hubby is on resverist...i'm sure it going to be an experience.

2008-09-15T21:45:00.004+08:00

Keevan swimming at home..

2008-09-01T12:42:00.003+08:00

Sometimes i wonder is Keevan growing way too fast..haha..but nvm la as long as he is healthy..

See this he is on 3 weeks different and there is a big different..i wan him to grow tall tall dun be like his mum.

2008-08-28T10:48:00.000+08:00

I am back to work for 2 weeks and work is piling higher n higher..so many old things to check and new work coming..OMG!!! I miss those days at home..

Keevan is growing very well..fat little boy, as cute as before and so talkative..I think I have a very obedient son..he know his mother is working so hard so he help by sleeping through the night..so mummy no need give night feeding..he is so wonderful..

And daddy too..my lao-he bought me my first carat..haha..never expect but it came..so nice and so sweet..actually I wanted a rolex but he say next year..haha..think harder..

I going on leave next week..finally can have some rest,but i think sure lots of work to do from home one..how??

2008-08-09T21:46:00.003+08:00

Keevan is learning to hold his milk bottle himself..milk bottle is definately someting he love so much..my clever boy

Keevan First Swim 8Aug08

2008-08-09T21:28:00.005+08:00

we finally bought Keevan for his first swim and we bought back the portable swimming tub so he can swin everytime..he really love to swim..he enjoy so much in the tub, he keep trapping water and turning around...

See how much he love to swim..after 10 mins in the tube, stil going strong

My sneezing boy

2008-08-07T11:50:00.004+08:00

My poor boy is having block nose..everytime he drink milk he will get very irritated by it..hai yo...so sneezing help him a lot...so there he goes..if you realised he is actually having hiccup at the same time..

My cute boy video

2008-08-06T17:53:00.004+08:00

See one moment he scream, the moment he laugh and start to scream again?!?

my cute boy

2008-08-06T13:29:00.002+08:00

my cute boy is definately full of expression..one moment he can be screaming away but the next he is laughing out loud...
I realli wonder what is on his mind...and wat is he talking about..i took a video of him few min ago screaming n laughing in a spilt sec..
but i cannot load now..do it later..dunoo why i using my mobile to type this blog now but it can load picture cannnot load video..so mus do it on my laptop later..weird!!

2008-08-05T11:21:00.004+08:00

Keevan will be 2mth old on 11 Aug and will also be the first day i am back to work...i'm in dilemma..i wan to go back work but i also wan to stay home with my lovely boy..altot at times i cannot tahan him anymore...

how i wish the company offer flexi working hour, like i go office 3 days and the rest of the week i can be at home working...i think i can ask but i dun think it will be approve..here is not like canada or europe where they work from home..people in asia do not trust their employee..so they have to keep them in the office...i hate it..if ur staff stay at home and never work, i dun think the employer is stupid enough not to find out right...if the staff is so lazy, then sack the person la..why begin a employment relationship without trust..

well..that life here la..if i can have flexi hour i can still send boy to granny house in the morning then i can pick him up earlier instead of like 7plus every night..the moment u come home he wan to sleep liao how to bond..

PM Lee is going to speak very soon, every year at this time people will start to talk about govt giving money or not, any changes in child birth benefits, child care benefits...anyway i am going to lu-gi out because it will always apply to those born after 1 Aug 2008..abit unfair baby born before that are not baby?? i mean we already took our maternity leave yes mayb cannot give us more but money can give more right??

3 months is not enough...3 days paternity is definately not enough..luckily hubby manage his own company so he can be with me anytime..3 days for other daddy, do wat..poor thing...do you know both mummy and baby need a lot of attention...

and child care be a place for parent to feel safe and easy to put their child at..high prices shun parent away from them..and uneducated caretaker?? OMG..shouldn't this be govt worries and giving us help...mayb we should learn more from the western part of the Earth that why we have so many expat..foreign worker...

Any way..Keevan love to talk..sometime i really wonder is he 7 weeks old onli..sometime i tell people, they also give me surprise look..he is too alert to be 7 weeks, even at first month he eyes start to roll here roll there..but i like it..this is good sign...this morning he woke up at 7.30am to play and talk so many sound..

So I took a liitle video of him baby talking...

Like Father like Son

2008-07-29T11:37:00.002+08:00

THE PIG FAMILY!!!

First oversea trip to Muar 26 Jul 08

2008-07-29T11:25:00.003+08:00

ICA is so efficient lately that Keevan manage to have his passport done within 3 days and while collecting it only took me 10 mins...

so we took him to Muar..for his first oversea trip...he seems behaving himself in the car for the 2 hour drive...think he feel like he is being rock all the way..haha...the weather there is so hot..once we get out of the car, he start to cry..

Before we left we go so many things to prepare to bring along, water and diapers!!! and clothings...have to bring a big bottle of hot water to make milk for him and lots of diaper..

Little Keevan so cute, my mummy is carrying him and me and Ivan walk away to put groceries into the car..then he look and look around cannot find us, he started to cry so loud, the moment we walk back to him and I carried him, he stop crying..he already know who is mummy and daddy..so touching..then i decided to BF him, then he start to smile smile smile..

so magically, everytime i BF him, he will keep smiling after that..it make me wan to BF him forever..

2008-07-21T13:02:00.004+08:00

Little Keevan is full of expression..a little boy can make so many different type of face..and now he start to talk and talk..he yak here and yak there..he love to talk..if he is awake, he expect someone to talk to him all the time..

of course there is time when he keep crying and crying that we dunno what to do with them..recently he love to cry after drinking his milk..something to do with his breathing..it seem like he always could not get all the air out by burping..so heart pin to see him having to suffer..

but when we went to see his doc last monday, he say he is perfectly fine..except for growing a bit too much..as in fat..he gain 1.3kg in 1 month thus he is already 4.4kg..doc say I am feeding him to much that may also cause he to have difficulty breathing after drinking milk..he is drinkinf 4 oz of milk now..which exceed a lot from what other babies is drinking..if i give him lesser he will ask for more..what a dilemma.eat too much also cannot..

Keevan Baby Shower

2008-07-21T12:47:00.003+08:00

Keevan had his baby shower at Pin Si Restaurant on 8 Jul 08. Alot of guest came to give their blessing.. a little boy party with about 120 guests..OMG..event more than the number of guest that we have for our wedding..

A happy occasion anyway..but all of us is died tired by the end of the 2 hour party.. the 3 of us head straight to the bed when we got home..

2008-07-05T14:55:00.001+08:00

Little Keevan pop out and being placed under the warmer...

V!!! for VICTORY!!!

Time for checking me up!!!

First time holding my son...can you see tears??

In our suite finally...

My delivery diary

2008-07-05T14:22:00.002+08:00

Jun 10 - Went to see Dr Chan, he say little Keevan is ready to pop out by 11 Jun..water in water bag is streaking and I'm already dilated by 2 cm. me so excited. quickly call Dear Dear and tell him the news. Then I proceed to finish off some of my handover and off to facial..

Jun 11 - I admit into Mount A at 2.30am, mid-wife ask me why so late..I was being induce to make the process faster..by 3.30am, the real big big pain start kicking-in, I tell you it is real painful..I tried breathing and breathing and breathing bu it stil so pain..OMG

by 9.00am, Dr Chan came and announce that I have another 5-6 hours of pain to endure..OMG..I already try to endure the pain for long.thinking that I am going to die soon, I stil have 5-6 hours to go..he recommend me to go for epidural..which I really dun wan..but Dear say better take it will help me a lot..

So by 10am, i have my epidural..I tot I cannot move my leg after I have my epi, but actually I can, just that I dun have too much strength to move it..finally I can sleep..

by 12.30pm, Dr Chan came back to see me again, this time round, good news, I am ready to give birth..the midwife start all the preparation of tools needed..so excited going to see Keevan soon..

after 3 sets of pushing, baby Keevan is on top of my tummy and not inside anymore..it so wonderful to see him..Dear Dear so brave to go through the whole process with me..

the funny thing is on my final push. Dr Chan want Ivan to count so that I hold my breath for 20 sec, so he counted happily away even when Keevan is already on my tummy..the scarist part is when Dr Chan is sewing my wound and you see the needle and thread in front of you..yucks!!

About 2.30pm, I am push to the ward..they do not have any single ward available so they put me in a double ward..Dear do not like the idea..so I was push to the family suite..haha..lucky me..dear dun wan me to share room with other..and I dun wan too..The suite was really nice..got a living room and my bed room separatly..living room got plasma got radio..my room also have plasma..it so cool, like staying in hotel like that..think that what everyone say also..

After going through so much..it definately worth it..

2008-06-25T18:01:00.002+08:00

what should I say Keevan is already 2 weeks old..so fast..i'm out of confinement very soon..thinking of it 10 months is so fast..every thing is so fast..i'm missing those moments that he is kicking and tossing inside me...i'm a happy mummy a happy wife..ivan is a great daddy and hubby to us..

haha..anyway not that i never go out during this time..but cannot go out as and when i like only when i am on mission.. yesterday took Keevan out to do his Birth Cert..Yes finally he is registered..and his chinese name is 景佑.

Baby shower is finally settled..my next mission is to buy new clothes for Keevan and myself for his baby shower..and I wan to go to do my nails and hair..

After 2 weeks, Breastfeeding become easier and he a happy boy..i love that he eat and sleep..haha.. I think he didn't grow fat but longer (haha..think it higher...)

I'm proud of Keevan

2008-06-25T17:35:00.003+08:00

Only 7 days after Keevan is born, he can lift up his head and turn his body.. My muscular boy..

2008-06-17T13:34:00.002+08:00

Staying at home is so boring...hai..nothing to do except for taking care of Keevan..
yesterday we went to his doctor, Keevan weigh 3.240kg..he grow 0.08kg since birth..good achievement i think..

now the problem is feeding him..i regret giving him bottle express milk..now he dun wan to latch on i'm so sad..everytime he will cry n cry..so pain to see him cry until like tat..i really wan to BF him at least for a year..but he dun take from me directly i dun think i can last till one year..i have to be strict and hard-harded I think..

i will drop in my labour dairy soon..itone experience that is unforgetable and so previous..

Prince Keevan Ho

2008-06-15T18:07:00.006+08:00

After 39 weeks and 4 days..finally we met..
Keevan is born on 11 Jun 08

Mummy-To-Be

2008-06-10T12:56:00.002+08:00

I going to be Mummy soon..so excited about it..

HAHA...all I wish is a smooth labour..

this pregnancy experience is something that will be in me forever..it a something magically that one can have only when it happen to them..having the baby growing and moving inside you..god creation make wonders..

OH well..it going to be new chapter of my life and Mr Ho life soon..well i can say a completed family finally..a miracle of love.

being pregnant also cause me to fall 3 times..OMG..so much laughter about my fall last saturday, happily playing mahjong with mum, dad and sis..when hubby call to check 4D, I walk towards the TV, step on Jolie blanket and slip..BANG!! i hit my butt, my back and my head. And it bleeding from my head..haha..sis watch the whole fall and laughing behind, mum n dad so gang chio that they slam ivan phone..haha..ten mins later back to mahjong table again..

i think i am very lucky and bless..having fall so many things but nothing happen..touch wood!! i think one of the reason is because being young and having energy..if i am old old pregnant woman i think i wil not be able to restand so many fall..

Now i'm HAPPY HAPY HAPPY..Keevan is arrving soon..

2008-06-03T23:15:00.002+08:00

Keevan will meet everyone soon..and I am really looking forward for it..dunno why I love him to see him tomorrow, a date I chose myself,..but it all up to him..

last went to see Dr Chan, he weight 2.9kg..haha..fat fat..hopefully not too fat..and I put on 12kg so far..reach achievement i think

surprisinly this few day a lot of friends sms me ask whether I give birth already or giving soon..haha..think everyone thinks that I am pregnant for so long time..

Wait for my good news everyone..to finally meet Keevan...

Well how this name come up..easy

IVAN + KEGENA = KEEVAN

2008-05-23T10:55:00.001+08:00

hai yo..so embarrass today..i fall down while I am walking to work..in Raffles City Shopping Center..so ma lu...the stupid shoe and the slippery floor..everyone looking at me..

but lucky i feel ok now..dun think it too much harm to baby and me..

Today is eat with your family day..can go home at 5pm..haha..actually no big deal but better than nothing..dun complain..

3 more weeks to go!!!

2008-05-20T20:59:00.003+08:00

Soon I giving birth to our little Keevan..tot of it 10 months is so fast..I'm wondering have I been pregnant for so long..nv tot it will run so fast..i going to miss this experience especially when little keevan is dancing in me..2 months on leave to spend magically moments with keevan and my lao-ho..

yesterday i asked mr ho whether he is excited..he said yes!! going to be father soon..i hope he dun faint in the delivery ward..so many things to plan and buy for little keevan..i am still wondering how come i got so much money to spend on this little fellow...always wanting to buy more..i got my hospital luggage pack just waiting for the time like Dr chan say..now we can only wait for the sign of labour..

now planning where should we hold keevan baby shower, Equinox or Raffles Hotel..actually i like Ink Club bar but i think it will not suit the old tradition people..hai..

I want to endure with no epidural..i most do it..i hope i can do it..like sok hoon and my sis..they are my inspirations..

Look forward to meet our angel soon..

I'm week 36

2008-05-18T19:45:00.000+08:00

Maternity Photo

2008-05-02T20:31:00.005+08:00

Should I go for my maternity photoshoot..it will cost me $238 with all negative return..photo shoot by WaiFeng at foto-u...

should I spend this $$ or put it to better use...but it a memory that I wan to keep..I think i going to miss this little tummy of my..

I have to make my decision soon..cause baby is poping out soon..then I wan to bring baby to take his newborn photo also...everything also $$..I did calculate how much I spend already for our little prince..it near to 5K...haha...can't believe I actually have 5K to spend..

we went East Coast Park on Labour day..the whole family..never do it before..we only go there for 30mins jus to please little Jolie..but we have fun...

Fat Fat me..HAHA!!!

2008-04-04T12:26:00.003+08:00

I went to see Dr Chan today and realise i add on 3 kg from my last visit..where is all this fats that I am storing, becoz I dun feel it...the scariest part is I dun feel it will make me eat more since I think otherwise...haha...

nvm..according to my BMI index I can put on 11.5 to 15kg during my pregnancy so I am stil well within when I start at 47kg..I still got 3 kg to go before I hit 11.5kg..haha... even Dr Chan say I have a very active baby without asking me..but he say the more active the better because it mean little prince is very healthy..that what we wan to have..now little prince weight 1.3kg and Dr Chan say the baby should weight around 3.1kg when he takes his first step into Earth..very healthy one..

I started my antenatal class on wednesday and I got 5 more lesson to go..having some fun there..

I thinking whether I should get my big belly porfolio done, but thinking whether it is necessary..hai...

see my big big tummy..but not really very big la..10 more weeks to go only..

2008-03-11T11:59:00.003+08:00

Our little angle dancing in me..

2008-02-29T17:42:00.001+08:00

After being so busy for one week, hai yo, keep looking at numbers, I finally got the chance to take a break..Haha…I took leave on Monday to rest..si bei sian…

I heard the cocktail event didn’t go on very smoothly..OMG..due to mother nature..I think will people do understand but it will still leave a very bag impression…next time nv go sailing anymore better than on land..hard and solid..

Tomorrow going to see little baby again..and daddy making time for it also..yes yes..happy mummy..baby is 6mths now..so fast..went to shop around for baby stuff never buy anything but clothes..hai yo..anywhere going to the baby fair soon to buy at one shot no need go here and there to find…have not go sign up my maternal course yet, better do so before it is all taken up..hai…lazy bum

Now I only wish I will get my bonus..or else I feel like I work one year for nothing..shit.. how can that be..OMG!!!....anywhere my ex-boss is leaving and almost everyone is happy and opening champagne..well it doesn’t concern me anymore but I feel pity and sympathy her..it not that she is not good but she cannot cope and survive that all I can say..and maybe her human relationship building is not so good…hope she can something better..work in my current position is getting tougher and tougher and I love it…I keep thinking about work..OMG not very healthy…I am enjoying every moment of it of course there is shitty things also la..but life is like tat..

2008-02-21T13:41:00.000+08:00

I really cannot understand Singaporean or people using public transport…there is no such thing as it is reserved for you husband auntie or uncle..damn you..This morning I met this Indian lady on the train that leave her bag on the seat and tell me that it meant for your husband..Fuck you!! Your husband is no where in sight when I walk towards the seat and can’t you see that your idiot husband will not need the seat more than I do unless he is handicapped!!! I think she wish he is…

When I just can’t be bother with what she told me and what to put my butt down, the husband appear and shoo me off with a newspaper!!! HELL TO BOTH OF YOU!!

Further more no body around us what to stand out for me..will I understand it coward Singaporean behaviour only know how to see show…I think if I didn’t hear wrongly opposite there is another guy who say what the deal of not seating..so why don’t you stand and let me have the seat..WHAT A BASTARD!!! I call dear dear and nag nag at him.. In front of the idiotic Indian couple..I just told them that they are BIG IDOIT AND FUCKER ASSHOLE. HOPE THEY WILL NEVER GET PREGNANT…they are not very old around 35-40…I think from India India whereby they are arrogant and snobbish..and they need the seats…if you are old age or handicapped or got a bigger tummy than me I would give my seat to you..

Dun let me see you again..or do this to me again..next time I will make it big…

People cannot understand sometime we may want to just stand and we may need to seat sometime but if you cannot understand how a pregnant woman feel..you better keep your mouth shut then giving comments especially BASTARD!!!

2008-02-11T14:07:00.000+08:00

Gong Xi Fa Cai!!

staying at home for so many days feel so shiok..tomolo got to work again..hai...

this new year i happily giving angbao and happily receiving it also..

baby is growing and growing..my tummy getting so big big..first day of new year i decided to wear like a big big angbao..everyone ask me the same question when they see me..you know la the typical one, girl or boy..how many month already?

2008-01-28T10:47:00.000+08:00

Having a little life in you is so wonderful..I can feel him everytime he move and swimming in me and ah-dear can hear his heartbeat...it so amazing…right now he is also moving around in my little tummy…everyone is saying my tummy so small…

Going to see baby very soon..this Saturday…this time round will be a detail scan..haha..cannot wait for it..dear will be taking off to bring me there…think this time will bring camera along to keep some souvenir photos..

We found his name…not going to tell you until he is born…4 more months to go only..

2008-01-11T09:34:00.000+08:00

So what if I have the best system at home..damn it..my office software sucks….

It is not comparable to my at all..waste my effort doing it a at home on my laptop..damn it.. now I got copy and paste all my stuff only my desktop..WTF!!!!

New Year Celebration

2008-01-05T12:51:00.000+08:00

We went for Korean Affair at Demspey on New Year eve..nice food nice wagyu..big hole..haha..

time stil very early after dinner so we decided to drive down to Ink club bar for some drink before the clock click 12 midnight...this year we also wrote our new year goal and mark ourself over last year goal..I PASS!! but dear dear FAILED...nvm try again..

we walk over to hotel lobby for firework..the fireworks are cool better view than last year in tanjong rhu..15mins of sparkling sparkling fire in the sky..

2008 will be a special year, a little angel will be joining our family..it a boy..it confirm but my gynae..

Christmas party 2007

2007-12-29T14:30:00.000+08:00

We had our christmas party at home this year..BBQ and mahjong session..had a lot fun..

Sibu Island Getaway 24-25Nov

2007-12-28T12:30:00.000+08:00

2007-12-28T11:52:00.000+08:00

All of us celebrated shuhui birthday this year..it was a wonderful evening..we have fun laughter and best of all sistahood..

it been a long long time since we can joke and 3-8 together...

never will I go to the 1928 or dunno 1948 restaurant at the old parliament house again.the food suck and way too exp for the unbearable taste of the food..Thai express taste better..

Brand new photos from my brand new camera!!!

Our greatest treasure

2007-12-28T11:15:00.000+08:00

2007-12-22T14:10:00.000+08:00

Our baby is already 14 week old..our baby grow grow and grow and that the way..haha.. I love it..litte tummy is getting bigger bigger look a bit auntie..nvm I love it..first semester is over and nothing much too complain got a wonderful in me that give me no problem except hunger and hunger...haha..lucky and happy mummy to be..

This is baby scan at 11 week..going to see our baby again on 2 Jan..in a brand new year..can't wait to see baby..After surfing and tumbling in the sea baby is perfectly ok in mummy womb..god bless our little angel

2007-12-21T13:48:00.001+08:00

I got a new camera from my super ah-dear for my Christmas..A new sony W80 camera..good deal good buy..haha…

My is 4 yrs old already so time to get a new one..I stil have not buy for him..dunno what to get..a lousy wife..haha.. sometimes I think we woman are shopaholic and man are not..there is nothing he need except for a new car, a new stereo and a new wife..haha..hai yo in office too many things to do going crazy…and we also got a new laptop that I cannot work from home because of the stupid vista..idoit microsoft when sell seomthing that almost not comparable to most things just due to piracy..idoit..

Me not going Toronto already because of the little angel living in me..it ok..I will get the chance again.. our little angel is much more important..Christmas this year will be at home eating BBQ so got to buy the food on Sunday..

Oh..I got a wishlist in my Christmas list that is a Clarins anti-stretch mark cream..wah lau went to see the price is S$67.00 OMG a small small tube..a lot mummy say it a good take a good price to pay for but I dunno lei..cannot part with my money on that…I cannot wait for Christmas to be over because it will be the great sales coming up..I bought 4 tops for myself and I feel like having more more..so must wait for discount..

New year coming also must have my goals set soon..this year goal was achieved altot not all but good enough..

2007-12-03T12:43:00.000+08:00

I’m flying to the moon because I am flying to Toronto in just one month time…

I’m SUPER SUPER HAPPY!!! Seem to be a big step to my career..

I am going to our Fairmont headquarter!!! Haha…I’m super happy…

But my dear dear will be suffering from sleepless night for a week..i will be home sick and love sick too…

Now I need damn serious winter clothing.. I need to keep myself super warm and my baby super warm too..I need to go borrow..I properly will go but one for keep sake..but I think it will be cheaper there let see how..I mus get a boot…it a must..haha..

Updates Updates…

So many things is happening lately every weekend is so jam pack..haha..I cannot tahan my LV speedy any more and I got myself a new Fendi.. I know I should not do it but I jus dun like it..and yesterday we went SITEX to buy ourselves a new Acer laptop because the one that we are using now is crushing on us every time..it a pain in the ass to use it…

And last weekend we went to Sibu island with Sis and Jacob, Anni and Shijun and one more couple..altot it just one day but it was fun. No TV no radio..it nature..and surfing..haha..I tell you I went to play surf board..but I play with extra care..altot I still tumble and tumble in the big big wave..and I was in the deep deep water before I knew it and it a big big panic for me..The sun shine the powerful wind wave is nothing you can find in Singapore..

Ohh..and Mr Chen finally become daddy Chen.. their son is born today..hmm I dunno the name yet but will go see them tonight..both mum and baby safe and sound..the next to give birth is Joanne and the next next one will be me..haha…can’t wait for it also

Beautiful morning on our wedding day

2007-11-21T20:55:00.000+08:00

Our Wedding Vow

2007-11-21T20:33:00.000+08:00

Dear Dear say to me:

All I ask of you is to have faith in us
And let the love we share continue to surround you
Xiujuan, as I stand here before you
Readying to be your husband,
Know this:
You have my heart
And I will be yours and stand by you through eternity
You are my love
I love you

My vow to my beloved:

谢谢你这一年来陪我走过的风风雨雨
谢谢你包容了我的一切
接下来的日子
我愿扶持,尊重,包容你, 与你有个美好的未来
只因有你, 我的人生才变得完整
我会守护着你, 不离不弃
实现我们的承诺

2007-11-21T12:54:00.001+08:00

I’m MRS HO..

I’m happily married to Mr Ivan Ho…

We have a beautiful seaside wedding, set in a romantic mood..

We vow to keep this love as our greatest treasure..

We have families and friends to celebrate our love

We have moon and stars above us

I’m a happy wife and a happy mum!!

2007-10-31T17:24:00.001+08:00

I’m tired every single day..every single hour..I can forcing my eyes to stay open for this long long time…and I keep having tummy ache everytime I finish food..damn bad…I am also damn hungry every hour..can you believe I can eat like a pig and sleep like a pig..

Now I am scheduling appointment for Shemin and I dun like it..it a pain in a ass if I cannot get her any appointment..OMG some more is for next week..*sob sob*

The bitch new secretary report to work..that was fast and every one is happy because nobody have to deal with her anymore..hopefully she found her new heaven..as usual she never tell anyone what is going on then this new girl pops up..

My laptop at home is going to crash soon..very soon, it start to auto shut down itself…what a time to spoil when I dun have $$$$$, and damn I have not burn all my photos into CD-rom I promise I will do it very soon..or else I wil be damn sad..

Another half an hour I wan go home le..super tired and hungry..jus gumble down some biscuit 10 mins ago..i have to go buy food on my way home

2007-10-23T17:02:00.000+08:00

I’m a lazy bum..with big bum..OMG..I have been slacking in my office doing simple work and do not want to touch on my monthly expense…it a pain in the ass to check number especially expenses when it a hand-me-down..shit..have to understand what the last person is doing..luckily I got experience in this or might as well kill me..

I spoke with my ex-ex-boss today..not the bitch but my dear Mr Ong, happy to hear that he will make a effort to come back and attend my wedding..so touch by him..to fly back from Hong Kong to attend my special day..it was a big surprise to him..haha..

Probably a lot of people is speculating whether am I ready for this marriage..yes I am..when you fall down once you will know how to stand up and not fall down again..being with ex-hubby is a memory, a sweet journey..life move on…and I am embarking a brand new life..I understand the mistake I made in my first marriage and I had leant it well.. Probably nobody can or will understand even if you have the same experience because everyone has a different mindset.. that what make the world spin… I have grown from a little girl to a wise mature woman, I understand how relationship works between 2 person and it no longer matter who provides are who love more than the other..it about us, it about giving.. altot self-centered sometime still exist but we can always work things out…

I’m ready to be Mrs Ho and ready to be Mummy Ho also.. God bless us with our baby mouse.. and I am really looking forward for our baby to step on earth… I’m sure my lao-he can be a great Mr Ho and daddy Ho..

I always wanted baby and had even told Mr Ho to donate his sperm to me even he is not marrying me so I can have my baby pig..haha..he say I siao… he and children I think wasn’t a match..it never came into his mind to have a baby at such young age.. being bless with my naughty niece, I think he fall in love with kids soon.. everyday he spend time with her.. more or less help him prepare himself and start to love kids.. at first he only wan to be a hubby at 29 or 30 and have kid about the same time but on Aug 20 he caught me in surprise.. and I will never forget.. he ask me for our baby.. cannot express how I feel..he say since we are getting married why not have our baby.. wow wow..being a cry baby I burst out in tears, joy of tears… So when I miss my mens, I got crazy gar gar about it..keep praying that I will be a mummy soon..waited and waited… till one day I cannot tahan anymore I went to buy a kit without telling him.. I wasn’t giving myself big hope as I tot mostly have to try a few time.. the moment it a positive I cannot breath anymore.. I cannot close my mouth.. if I am in a public toilet..i would have jump and scream… Call dear immediately and tell him the happy news..he was in a shock.. of course a good one.. I quickly book appt with my gynae.. so it all begin…

I’m a happy girl in a happy world.. all I wish is a healthy marriage and a healthy baby…

2007-10-22T15:44:00.000+08:00

This is the second week in my new position and I am still getting use to it..a bit more time here except for sometime..more conference call at weird hour because of our corporate office in Toronto..what to do..

The system keep playing me because sometime I can access sometime I cannot..Dunno what to do with it..damn…

Wedding in another 4 weeks time..lucky most thing done..now I am considering should I ask Jon for a whole day phototaking session..hmmm…got to think about the financial part also..

A simple seaside wedding that I always wanted..nothing fanciful at all..Dancing into the moonlight..sweet evening…no need wedding gown, no need yam-sen just us and close friend..

But stil have not complete my RSVP..shit..I hate this..

Looking forward for the day to come..actually time pass very fast…from 7 month to 4 weeks…just like 24 hrs..

2007-10-10T13:12:00.000+08:00

Hey..today it my birthday!!! happy happy girl..altot in this very boring training that make me fall asleep every minute..but i'm stil happy...

i'm having wonderful birthday today as I receive a wonderful gift..something that i am waiting for..so today i going to make sure i will leave by 6.30..haha.

going to be Mrs Ho very soon..and trying to get our flat today.. my ah dear blur blur put some wrong information..so tomorrow got to trouble him to go HDB hub to change it..wish me luck..

I'm a happy girl

2007-10-04T10:03:00.000+08:00

finally the day is coming...actually so many days is coming...my last day in my current workplace is next Fri whileby the first 4 days I will be on training..a bit sad cause this year my birthday i cannot take leave..damn it...

another 44days I will be Mrs Ho..7 months ago we start to look for our wedding place and realise that without much thinking it going to be Sembawang Park..haha..where we started..find the place is super easy but then the solemiser as i said previously was a pain in an ass..at least i got it now..finally we also make our decision for our wedding favors..so many ideas..

since like 7 months is a blink..so fast is here..lucky most things are done..

and also our xiao bai is finally here..i am happy driving it around...haha

2007-09-18T21:15:00.000+08:00

OMG today mark my one month never write my blog le..what have i been doing..super busy..especially this last 2 week..helping my boss to do her marketing plan and budget..feel like she is doing nothing everything i do or amy do..then never get to submit on time also..till now have not submit..really throw our face..

came back from retreat le..have a lot fo fun..

then one update must say..i am leaving the bitch..haha...finally after 17 months..wow..wow..so shiok..cannot believe my last day with her will be 13 Oct..haha..i'm leaving to go to our global sales office..the director there ask me to go there help her.definately a right move..got a hard time to fight to get transfer by mid oct..she making it diffcult for me..i dun care i'm leaving..that wat i wan..

and also..above all the most important is i finally found my solemniser..finally...really hard time to find one..this cannot there cannot...we been saying it since 7 months ago finally it coming very near..

2007-08-19T19:32:00.000+08:00

We have one of the preview of the NDP so we decided to go not to waste it..altot it not the full dress rehearsal..but it was stil nice..jolie was so excited over the F16, helicopter..it was total different to see it there and on TV..

Jolie sure have a happy time..most of the photo is taken by her.

one fine day i decided to let Jolie have some of my toy to play..it was kept on top of my cupboard that i dun even know how many do i have..then i was to surprise that i have that many..and it all so real..the microwave can work, the blender can blend..i even have washing machine..wow..do u know how much million i spend on it..haha..i jus like that..i give jolie a few set to play with..others i keep she stil young to know how to handle them as in taking good care of her toy..

2007-08-19T19:07:00.000+08:00

So long never write anyhthing here..super busy and angry with the bitch..concluded she is inferior..she is so super afraid that we will all complain about her..serve her right..and i did.. i told the management all the idoit things that she did..

yesterday there was a fight in the oldies..all because of 2 idoit gal..i would say they are bitch and slut..it was a funny scene also..which lasted about an hour..i was so surprise that no singaporean actualy call to report the fight to police..weird..never mind about it..

this is when dear dear bought me out for our date..hehe..

2007-07-30T21:58:00.000+08:00

my ah dear date me on 15 Jul..haha..date lei..I always believe couple should be dating each other even though they spent every day together..

dear dear took me to take cable car..we have fun..his virgin ride in singapore cable car..our virgin ride together..very nice..then we stop over at Vivocity for shopping and food then continue back to mount faber..it nice of him to date me as he is alway so super busy and preoccupied..

the bad thing is he always having thoughts in his mind that i dunno..so super pre-occupied everytime..Sometime I wish he is jus a normal man working instead of doing his own business..hmmm..never mind la i know he is doing for us..

I have photos of our date but i'm so super lazy and tired..i'm very tired lately no energy at all..one day it will be up..

2007-07-20T10:14:00.000+08:00

DEAR DEAR I LOVE YOU!!!..YOU TOUCH MY HEART WHEN YOU SAY YOU WILL BRING ME TO WATCH "THE KING AND I". I know it not ur style and you are willing to go with me...you are the best!!!!

Tonight I am going to Sok Hoon & her Hubby renewal of their wedding vow dinner..the venue very near my workplace just upstair..well not really at my top of my hotel but near la same mgmt connected building..haha..they having it at Equinox private dinning..it going to be a church wedding with their pastor around..

they were married like 8 yrs ago..during that time they are not baptised catholic and now they are so they wan to marry in the eyes of god..i love this idea..dear dear is not going with me tonight..i going to miss him but i already start to miss him since i say byebye to him in the morning..

I am pamper by him...and i am not complaining about it..every morning he will drive me to train station and after work will pick me from train station..then if i work late he will come fetch me..or everywhere i go until late night, he will always come fetch me..how nice...tomorrow he taking me to buy muffin..so shiok..the muffin from 'chocolate N Spice" is damn good..must try..that why i also pamper him by making breakfast for him every morning..

2007-07-19T11:18:00.001+08:00

I super no mood to work..I feel I so blurr lately...wah lau..I should be at least $1000 richer today but damn it...our car plate number came out 2nd prize last night and the whole world thought I strike 4D..if I strike 4D, I will be happily booking my air tickets for holiday already which I really need it...

when can I have a long oversea holiday again...i'm sick and tired here now..i wan to take a plane and go somewhere to look see look see and try new things..the last time I tot flight is last year march to bangkok with my mama...although I have a lot of oversea short trip with dear dear and I am glad we have that at least..but I wan more..I very greedy..ah dear always so busy very hard to find time to go holiday especially long holiday, and he dun like the idea of me travelling alone...hmmm.....hopefully like wat he plan, we can go australia or thailand this yearend.

got something better than nothing..so our sales retreat we are going Desaru in August..and hopefully the bitch approve my leave so I can extend my stay there and dear dear can come over to look for me..actually we should not be spending now but wat to do..I got "Flower" feet..haha..

2007-07-13T11:49:00.001+08:00

I very long very scold her BITCH already and I think her ears need to be itchy..altot if I didn't scold her bitch, her ears will be itchy also because too many people here just hate her!!! haha..so wonderfull..

inefficient, unproductive, bitchy, moron, sucker, slow...whatever..nobody likes her..

but nobody dare to write a letter to complain her..no body wan to back me up..shit!!!

She a bitch bitch bitch!!!!!!

We are at Go Go BamBiBi

2007-07-07T11:36:00.000+08:00

Zhi and Ivy Wedding

2007-07-07T11:17:00.000+08:00

2007-07-05T16:35:00.000+08:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAREST SISTA, ANNI

HAPPY BIRTHDAY YO YOU!!!!

so co-incident right, both my sista next day birthday...so fated we are supposed to know each other..

Anni, sure going to enjoy her birthday cos she coming my workplace to stay..I have not sleep here beofre lo..mayb I should come disturb her..haha..she will kill me...

time flies, among all sista I know her for the longest because we are from the same primary school..one does not need a lot of friend but a handful will fill your heart..

Ni, enjoy this beautiful day because it especially yours!! stay healthy, cheerful, bitchy, smart!!!

~~~~~~~~

ya today is a busy day, I am taking a break from my hartic life today, never ending things to do..wah lau early morning till about lunch time, I am busy with the stupid department budget that give me extra headache running around...then got report to do then go contract to review..I am like a robot..dun even have time for dear dear...later stil got meeting to attend..sell mooncakes..which I am of no interest..

hai yo, then I am getting busy already, have to start next yr plan..the horrible calender is in my hand now.. I think this year will be worse than last year because of my troublesome bitch..she sure picks on everything simple little things...then it will equal to late nightsSSSSSSSssss....

2007-07-04T16:38:00.001+08:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAREST SISTA, SHIRLEY

HAPPY BIRTHDAY YO YOU!!!!

Stay healthy, pretty, charming, intelligent, bitchy, young and many many more..Enjoy this wonderful day!!!!

Today is Shirley birthday dun think will get to see her..but nvm..i'm sure she enjoying herself...

this monday when I come back to work I have bruises and blueblack and back pain becoz of Jolie again..haha...we bought her to Dempsey Road children playground call "Go Go Bambibi". A playground full of obstacles but with all safety feature. This is our first time at Dempsey Road, new place to explore, quite a lot of things. Dear got to prepare for his work then I go play with Jolie..She definately enjoy the fun and me too, except i'm a little too big and have to bent all the time..2hours later I have to surrender..so she went to play by herself as she already familiar with the place and do not need me anymore..Then dear finish work went to join her..he only play with her half an hour, he surrendered..lucky he surrender then Jolie get angry then willing to leave the playground..hehe...

then we went to orchard to do some shopping..Jolie was very well behave through out maybe she was tired after playing for so long..lucky for us then..on the way to dinner she fall asleep..she had a big bowl of rice at dinner..amazing when she always eat very little only..

I have photos will upload soon..and also at Zhi wedding..

2007-06-27T10:00:00.000+08:00

I cannot log on to blogger in office anymore..damn it..last time can now cannot le...can't even have a little moment of relax in the busy time..not to say I cannot load into my game page also...OMG!! where can my little relax moment go to??

yesterday was zhi last night as a single man...altot he was solemise already but to chinese they are not official marry...so all of us when oldies to have a drink..nothing interesting..later i will be on half day leave, I need to go somewhere important, and I cannot tell yet...I will let you know when the time is right..I am so excited..too bad ah-dear cannot go with me..but i will be sure that he is not going to miss it..

but then he took our little transport with him then I will have a little hard time going..take a cab there most probably instead of keep changing bus..on my way back then take bus..3more hours I am going back.

Later I may go shopping before I go homw..I wan to buy a new bag and a new shoe, but then I am stil deciding should I part with my $$money$$..haha...I scare when I go buy I will not only buy one pairs but a lot of pairs..I should be saving not spending..how come I can never get enough of shoes and bags..OMG!! woman!!

2007-06-26T10:49:00.001+08:00

I have a "ba ru Ku" on my head all becoz of Jolie.. We bought her to Macdonald at AMK to eat then she wan to play at the playground in the park. So we bought her there for the swing..surprisingly this time she is not afraid of the sand anymore..everytime bring her to sand area, she will want you to carry her...she will tell you the floor is dirty..

This time she asked me " Yiyi, can I stand on the sand" I told her of course..she took of her shoe and start running and playing at the playground..how I got a "BUN" on my head because she is walking thru a net then I want to go over the other side to catch her then while I was climbing up the pole without knowing there is a pole on top of me.."BANG" I almost fainted..haha...dear dear went blurred how come i so blurr!!! Mama sit far far away also can hear I "bang" my head..see how big the impact is..

then is dinner with dear parents and we bought mama and Jolie along with us..first time they meet for casual dinner..haha..think Jolie play too much..lose of energy eat a lot of rice..

Zhi and Ivy ROM

2007-06-24T12:50:00.000+08:00

My vigin Trip to Ubin

2007-06-24T12:47:00.000+08:00

Dear Dear Birthday

2007-06-20T21:45:00.000+08:00

Dear Dear Birthday is not long ago..I already forgot what we did tat day..hmm...I remember le we did nothing most of the day..but we went to Shunfu Road to buy muffin..super yummy..then we bought mama to Park Royal hotel for buffet..

Then finally we are home and jolie cannot wait to get the cake...haha....keep bugging him to blow the candles...

2007-06-18T18:29:00.000+08:00

Last Weekend, was busy and tired but stil enjoyable..poor Jolie is sick from fever..she probably catch a cold when we are at the Jurong Swimming Pool..She really enjoy a lot at the pool till she get ill..poor little girl..

I also went to Villa Bali with Dear finally...a very nice place, I like the music and the ambience..very relaxing..we have our drink chit chatted..wow...another new found place..a bit far but still ok..you should go try..I know Shirley and me will definately make a trip there again..Then on Saturday, I went clubbing with Shirley..I dun think it clubbing but we went to a concert at "9 7"..a ah-lian place maybe to most people but the singer there are the best...very long never stay out until so late without ah dear, I am only home at 4.00am..haha...someone is already snoring like a pig in bed le..

Since like I am always the one partying away, go coffeeing away with friends..but lucky he understand...hehe..then yesterdy night we also play mahjong..no need to say I am the winner again..hohoho...can pay for the summon we got at the swimming complex..and today I am super happy..I got my jelly sweet that I have been looking around for it and also biscuit that I have not been enjoying since primary school days..thinking of buying another 10 box because I jus miss the taste..haha...

2007-06-18T11:01:00.000+08:00

~~~this post suppose to be send out on 7 Jun, but then never because I wan to load up the photo, till now I a stil lazy to do so~~~~

this week going to be a short work week for me how I love it..yesterday was on half day leave and friday I will be on leave..it dear dear birthday..planning what to do on that day...thinking of bringing Jolie out with us..see how first la..

Last Sunday was a tired but fun day..we bought Jolie out to Farrer Park Macdonald..ont he way there she start to snore in the car but then she everytime will auotmatically wake up once the car engine stop..but this time she didn't..she sleep soundly so no choice I ask ivan to carry her..all the way till she wake up..""let him experience it, it good for him"" after she woke up and have fried fries later off she go to the playgorund..but then she become so bored of the playground very soon...then we decied to bring her to IKEA for the children playground. We let her play inside the room and we went to shop around for our gift idea..thinking that she will be tired afterall all the running..so we can go home after IKEA...but then immediately we tell her we going home now, she pointed at her bicycle. She is hinting to go cycling because when we bought her out we say we will go cycling..I tell you she really got super memory..everytime dear dear ask her to do something then will have rewards then she definately remember to ask for the rewards when things are done..cannot play play with her...

So we asked her you wan to go cycling, you not tired, she said I wan go cycling..so no choice cannot lie to her then we went to lower pierce reservoir...we managed to teach her how to cycle instead of pushing the bicycle, haha..my sis says that they had taught her so many times but she jus dunno how to do it..we only use 5 minutes to get her to start pedaling..but she need a little push because her leg muscle is still growing..hehe...

We also bought her to the playground and she make me spin the merry-go-round while she and Ivan is on it..she never ask Ivan to push us..she so bias..then she make us hold hand and chase after us..on the way back home we thought she will fall asleep but she never, still play thru out the journey home..

2007-06-11T15:56:00.000+08:00

me sick have been coughing and coughing but I still enjoy my break alot..I guess dear dear have a good time also..me now at home on medical leave...going to snore to get my beauty sleep...

photos to come soon..

2007-06-07T11:24:00.000+08:00

yaya..tomorrow I am on leave..super happy...but have to stay home between 1-3pm because sis wan to have the house phone fix up...tomorrow dear dear birthday what should we do or wat should i plan?? hmmm...""roll eyes"" I really dun not idea..I already bought his birthday gift for him which cost me a fortune...

thinking to find some place for a some nice dinner or buffet dinner so we can sit there long long...we like to sit down long long just to chit chat or he play game I read books that our way or life ba..peaceful quiet...wan to bring Jolie to Sentosa but tomorrow she got concert at school so cannot..let see how la..

i'm on leave super happy..Haha!!!! then no need take sales minutes for one month..even more shiok-ka-do-do...i dun like taking minutes the worst is I dun like to write them out later..for one month no minutes taking...hoho....

I hope tomorrow I can wake up early to prepare breakfast for my man..or at least cook lunch for him..I know he like it..yesterday we have a big conversation and we manage to close some chapter and open some new chapter..talking to dear every night on the bed is never a miss, we will update each other wat happen during the day and wat to look forward to..this sunday I may have steamboat again..haha...because his mother pamper me and him..everytime we request we will get it but of course must wait till she is free la..

2007-05-30T11:18:00.001+08:00

Tomorrow another holiday..haha...can rest again..super shiok.dunno why lately the moment I fall in bed, I will collapse within 5 min..why I so tired..Sorry Dear dear..you are starting to have a pig at home..I know you are grumbling but I am trying hard..hehe..

I have craving for steamboat since dunno how many donkey days and I may have it today...finally dear dear say he is bringing me there tonight..his mother suppose to cook but never then I super disappointed..then he say he will fetch mama come my office then fetch me then can go eat togother..haha..super happy but hope he really bring me there..if cannot then must be aw fault..

Zhi soleminsation was...I dunno what to say..I got no feeling..but can sense the heat going on in the room..why 2 person marriage sometimes bring so much trouble..that why i always tell dear dear "love bring 2 person together, wedding ceremony bring 2 person away" I mean not really away but sometime the fault does not lies on the 2 person but on the families..When 2 person making decision is already so tough, with more mouth make it worst..

sometimes I hear people preparing for their wedding, they got such big headache..but why?? issit because my family can't be bother or they believe I know what I want that why they dun ask..they give me the freedom to be me..Anyway not my trouble..

Tomorrow we are going to watch the water show...haha..at sentosa..he say tomorrow it a must to go cause he say wan to bring me there long time ago..Best of all I will not see my boss from tomorrow until Tuesday...she goes on leave..i'm in heaven..

2007-05-25T14:09:00.000+08:00

This Sunday is Ah Zhi solemisation..cannot believe that he is got hooked and will be having his baby pig end of this year...life is really so unpredictable..that you jus have to play it around..Shivawn in office also pregnant everyone is having their baby pig..

i'm upset..but.....nvm

lately I quite free in office dunno why..mayb I do thing very fast..but i know I got things to do but i know i too lazy to do because i found it nonsense to waste time on it..but it something she never understand la..so why be bother..Now I super happy weekend coming..yaya...time for some freedom..

At Turi Beach, 12 - 13 May

2007-05-20T16:40:00.000+08:00

This is wat I mean when you are in paradise and dun wan to come back to the cruelty of the working world..the surrounding so peace and calming, strong wind and beautiful star

We went around taking photo..this is me me and for me..haha...

And this is us us us and us...wonderful holiday after so long....

2007-05-20T15:24:00.000+08:00

Sunday I jus came back from City Harvest and I think I will not go there anymore because it so commercialise there..I some how think the purpose to glorify god is no longer there...never mind time to change a church..as Ivan would love to join me along..I know he wan to go jus to accompany me but I greatly appreciate it...That why I love him..I love him so much that I bought him a Sony PSP yesterday..OMG cost me a fortune...but I can see how happy..he always want to buy one but dun wan to waste the money so it time to pamper him as he also pamper me by buying a car so I can use when I wan to..lovely right

Me now have time to write while they are playing mahjong...

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Chinese New Year after so long I finally got time to load some photo here...it been so long already since Feb..haha...a bit slow..

This is one the first day of new year, the way our family celebrated is many much difference, we dun go visiting but dear dear have to go visiting..never mind la so I can earn some pocket money..haha...

Second day we went tim sum at Fortunate Restaurant..many many people waited very long..it been a long time since the family went to eat tim sum together..we always have dinner.

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Some time in April in a boring Saturday afternoon only me and mum at home, with no place to go then we call sis she say she going Zoo so we also go there..I always love going to the Zoo..the last time I went to the zoo is only few month ago but this time I went so much changes..really I mean it total change..

See out princess and my sis

Me and my sis..identical?? hehe....

And while we are looking around, we saw this, haha...it mother nature to reproduce...

2007-05-14T11:27:00.001+08:00

How i wish i dun have to come back to face the bitch in office..see her face i also sian..we have a wonderful time in Batam, turi beach..to us, it already amazing nice to find such a nice relax place in batam only 25 minutes away from us..

clear sea water, nice restaurant, friendly service, with all the nature surroundding nothing can be better..both of us didn't want to come back we only have 26hr of no stress and full of freedom..it a beautiful place jus to sit down to have coffee or beer..food was nice and cheap..not too mention about the spa massage..how could anyone wan to leave paradise and come back to the cruelty of your office..

Our next trip will be in June..hopefully la..on his birthday..then we have to stop our short getaway to the nearby island until Dec..hmm...anyway my xiao bai will not be coming so soon le..it been delay dun ask me when I also hope it will be soon sooner soonest..but good things have to wait..a bit sad but what to do..

I have photo from Turi, share with you soon...

2007-05-11T10:15:00.001+08:00

Tomorrow tomorrow tomorrow I am going holiday...if you think i am so crazy to be so happy even that I am going to Batam only for one day..it ok..becoz I am going holiday and you are not..

This time round we are trying out Turi Beach resort..it all little villa in the resort, no rooms...altot it not villa like four season or banyan tree but stil better than a hotel room..haha..I'm happy I'm happy!!! holiday, spa, food OMG I am melting already..I'm sure dear dear and me will have a fantastic time..hoping to stay a bit more time there I ask for late check-out having to pay a little money only as haha..it good to be in this industry..haha...discount!!!!

hmm...and our Xiao Bai is coming soon..hoho...mayb la..but near la..haha...which mean next time we have more opportunity to travel over to malaysia over the weekend..haha...wat can be better jus mus be careful..hehe..

2007-05-03T12:00:00.000+08:00

My boss bought me a Tiffany & Co key ring for my belated secretaries week present..haha..to me it jus a present lo..nothing to Wow wow about lei..no excitement..maybe it belated..

was not working on the last 2 days damn shiok..just rot away..Ho Ho Ho..dun feel like working..later I will have a hard time with bitch again..damn

2007-04-30T18:08:00.001+08:00

WHO CAN SAVE ME FROM THE BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-27T18:20:00.001+08:00

Everytime I hear my niece singing away with the tune I never tot the song means so much things..

Until I saw the lyrics on my sis blog..OMG it a meaningful song..do you think when Jolie sing this song she actually know what is mean..seriously I dun think so la..she stil so young..but it show how much she is into music..hehe..

the song 天使 refers to Angel..Angels are always by your side, they will never leave you no matter what happen..so this song is definately the right song to see to your love one telling them, he/she is your heaven and earth, only he/she give you the strength to soar high..

你就是我的天使保护著我的天使从此我再没有忧伤

你就是我的天使给我快乐的天使甚至我学会了飞翔

飞过人间的无常才懂爱才是宝藏

管世界变得怎么样

只要有你就会是天堂

像孩子依赖著肩膀像眼泪依赖著脸庞

你就像天使一样给我依赖给我力量

像诗人依赖著月亮像海豚依赖海洋

你是天使你是天使

你是我最初和最后的天堂

2007-04-26T14:18:00.001+08:00

She is a ASSHOLE bloody fucker...I HATE HER to the core...SHE IS A BITCH...every body is a liar except for herself..she take long weekend can other people willl get penalise...She better stop her disgusting "sweety" here and there, her extravazaga in the words...OMG..she definately eat too much potato and behave like one bimbo...but she does not look like one...and to make it worse, she may be a distant distant relative of Ivan...WTF to have this type of relative..

OMG i forgot to mention who is she..but till now I bet most of you will know who am I talking about..Yes it my BOSS!!!!

I was on medical leave on Monday she say I am a liar, the shipment is not in HongKong for her now and she say I am not diligent..WTF!!! Asshole... I will throw dart on you..one day i will leave this job and destory all the things that I do for you and I will not give you any notice. I will come in late pack my stuff and leave...dun push me to the limit to send complaint to the GM..which I will..dare me if you wan..everytime she is not around the office, the atmosphere in the office is much more relaz everyone is so happy she is not around..nobody have to be on the gaurd for her...even since she came in 6 employee had left..come on it like a 50% turnover rate lo..what are you mgmt doing that you are not doing anything..some days you will like her but it can never cover the hatred you have for her..

and it secretaries week this week, I am not bother about what gift she give me but at least i wan to see some appreciation to the work that I have done for her..LOSER..she did nothing..she told me too busy to get things for me..wake up your bloody idea..IDOIT!!!!

As I say, she dunno how to appreciate people..why would someone in the global office recommended her to this position when they know about her negative history in Bangkok..I am piss..very piss off with her..

Our Batam Trip

2007-04-21T14:13:00.000+08:00

Finally someone willing to go batam with me for a just relax trip..3days2night in december..haha..but I never expect that the trip will really be so damn relax as it during the monsoon period then we are stuck in the room for 3 days except for our 3 meals..we slept in for 3 damn days..haha..Ivan super happy cause he never have the chance to sleep for 3 days without disturbance.

At night we will sit at our balcony to drink our wine..lucky I pay higher price to get the cabanas and it worth it..bigger room and facing the sea which make it more resort style.. And I also pay $3.00 to get strait times for him..which only cost 80cents in Singapore..OMG

I really look forward for another holiday it been so long..

2007-04-21T12:43:00.000+08:00

I went to watch Phantom of the Opera on Wednesday..it wonderful, they melt my heart..the phantom sing so well..I have to cry for him even though the way he love is not very right..

the expression on his face, the whole emotion from his body posure..OMG!!! the songs in the musical are so nice..every words touch every inch of my soul..

The singing in the rooftop, All I Ask Of You, such simple words but so many meaning to it..Then I realise the King and I will be in Singapore in August another must see musical.

Today I saturday afternoon dunno wat to do lei..it so sian..at first thought go back office to work but too lazy to take train all the way to City Hall then feel go like having my facial but dunno which one to go then dun feel like wasting money..I telling myself to save money...shit I feel like pampering myself..but hai yo...Saturday stay home day...lucky got mama and Lele around..poor lele jus beaten by mama becos he anyhow wee wee...bad boy..now he hiding from mama damn funny..

2007-04-12T11:13:00.001+08:00

Damn angry..my HP is spoilt no connection to the world anymore..I am not angry that it is spoilt I am angry that I have to go thru all the number keying again or the grouping again..then you will lost all your msg even now i lost all my calender event..using phone always spoil..later got to go suntec to get it fix..wah lau even when my office is at city hall i feel walking to suntec is a pain in the ass..if you go by citilink it make u go round n round..walk under the hot sun...makes you sweat like hell..damn..

Just over the weekend one of our friend pass away in a accident..it make me realise that life is so unpredictable..a kind of feeling deep in my heart but jus dunno how to describe it...I have never take it so hard when old people pass away to me it jus a matter of life and death since you already live so many years..So young people kill by incident is tragic..I mean if you are sick and you pass away I think it logical but kill in an accident..OMG!! God bless her family..

Life have become so short that everyone mus treasure it to the max.. time will always go by but never return..Have you ever wonder how life would be if you know you will pass away tomorrow..will you just lock yourself in the room and cry till you die or do watever you wan?? Have you wonder how would it impact your family, spouse or friends when you are gone??

hmm...

Last Sunday we went to petfarm with Jolie..haha..she had a lot of fun feeding the goat..and mama was so scared by the bull frog..Mama in her entire life never scare of insects or animal but only when she meet frog..she will scream and behave like a bimbo..even to those little frog when people but to feed their feed..she will jump like hell..it actually good to go somewhere nature during weekend and avoid the crowd in the city area where you find only people people..Then some more all this little farm that the public is building up is good for little children..When you go to the Zoo you can only see them cannot touch them but at the little farm you can touch them.. I love the Zoo but I mean there must be something that is missing because it so commericalise. The Zoo is clean nice environment but the litte farm is smelly and dirty..but whateve it good place to enjoy..Then we brought back the BBQ stingray..OMG the chilli is fabulous..we must go back there to eat one fine day